You’ve heard it before: You get back what you put in. People mostly use this when talking about working hard, right? When pursuing goals and going after what you want. It makes sense, but it’s not a phrase that’s really helping us when it comes to dating. Allow me to explain… When applying this idea, [...]
Once Memorial Day hits, it’s summer in the city. Am I right? Now I know summer doesn’t officially start until Wednesday, June 21st, but who is waiting that long? As us New Yorkers know, winter is always creeping in the shadows - we’re just a Nor’easter away from being trapped in our apartments. So with [...]
It’s spring. The sun is shining. It’s simply the perfect time to find your perfect match (see what I did there?) And as I am committed to making sure you find and keep love, I wanted to give you the inside scoop into a few dating snafus that have come through my office which are [...]
“How soon is too soon…?” This is a question I’m asked at least once a day - every day - in my office. There’s a natural student in us that likes to make sure we are doing the right thing or making the right choice. We also like the reassurance that our thoughts and opinions [...]
You know how they say, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”? Now, it does make sense for some things. If you judged brussels sprouts by their outward appearance, you may be missing out on one of the most delicious side dishes when roasted (and topped with a sprinkle of parmesan cheese!). But when it [...]
Let’s say this right from the get go… It’s ok to not be the girl with the baseball cap and jersey showing up at Yankee Stadium knowing Derek Jeter’s middle name, batting average, and ready to kick the crap out of a Red Sox fan. Feel better? (Me, too.) Because that ain’t me. And that [...]
If you want to find and keep a relationship, then the opportunity to date (more than once) is key. In the words of the great Whitney Houston, “How will I know if he really loves me?” Well, let’s back it up to “like me,” to igniting chemistry – and there’s no better way to know [...]