Dating Tips from Lisa Clampitt Matchmaking

Dating Tips from Lisa Clampitt Matchmaking2019-05-08T13:04:38+00:00

What Behaviors to Look For (And Look Out For) On Your Next Date

In a post #MeToo world, it can sometimes be hard to know what’s okay and what’s not okay. But there are a few tried-and-true rules on what’s never okay--or at least, never a good idea. For more on what to avoid, read below... No more than two drinks. I don’t mean to be a buzzkill, but after two drinks, [...]

One Surprisingly Sexy Question You Can Ask Your Date

As I established a few weeks ago, it is still possible to date and have a fun, sexy time during the era of #MeToo. You can read about it here. While awareness around bad behavior is heightened, the rules are what they’ve always been: Listen. Communicate. Be attentive. Look for cues. Ask for clarification when you need it. Above [...]

How to Be a Better Dater (And Person!) in the Wake of #MeToo

Here’s something I’ve heard more than once in the past year: “I don’t know how to date anymore, Lisa. What are the rules now?” The #MeToo movement, which began in late 2017, has had a wide ripple effect across society - and maybe most prominently in our dating lives. As woman after woman shares her story, many men have [...]

No, You Do Have To Look for Love. Here’s Why…

I’ll be the first to tell you: singles get endless amounts of conflicting, confusing advice. Among the most infuriating? Stop me if you’ve heard this one: “If you just stopped looking for love, you would find it right away!” Let’s take that apart for a minute. If you wanted to find a new job, would anyone tell you to [...]

5 Bewitching Ways to Make Halloween Your Matchmaker

Ah, Halloween. A time for trick-or-treaters to fill up their bags, haunted houses to do serious business, and . . . singles to find love? Believe it. While you may think of All Hallows Eve as a night for cheeky hook-ups in disguise, the truth is, Halloween has a long and surprising history as a night when singles couple [...]

When “Picky” Means Something Else in Dating

“Lisa. I’m just picky. That’s the first thing you need to know.” And I get it. You are successful, smart and savvy person. You know what you’re looking for and you’re ready for that love of your life. So, there’s nothing inherently wrong with being “picky.” You don’t have time to say “yes” to everyone and everything. Plus, being [...]